Inspiracje: Toys for big and small

It's easier to give birth than bring baby up...

That's true. Just ask your mum about her early maternity.
Or your bert friend who has small baby. Or ask me if you want...

Unfortunately there are too many commercials about happy maternity and there no place for real life. Believe me - it is really hard work. If you thought that your life full of work was the worst time in your life because you had no time for yourself, I would tell you you have no idea about the life with your own child.

To be clear - it's no my intention to scare you! Being mum and having baby probably are the best things in your life!
But you have to know, it will be hard time first. And there will be nobody who tells you what to do. Or rather there will be too many people who will be ready to tell you what are the best ways to bring your baby up! But wait a minute - you're mum and for sure you do everything what is best for your baby.

The real problem is that probably you may fell lonely in your new role. You have to understand that now everything will change.
There will be no time for your pleasure. You have to wait. Be patient. Be strong. Be happy.
You become a fighter who wake up every single day and spend your time on baby to the time it's go sleep.

It will be hard to forget being kid. You're no more kid. You are a parent. Mum, who need to care about her child. Right now you start to see the reality.

And the reality seems to be horrible. Why? Because it's a huge change. And change always means concerns. Add lack of food and sleepless nights - and here your are - the reality with no exit!

But really - don't worry. Every mother has to pass through this. Every day with your child gives you knowledge. You learn your baby, it learns you. There's no easy way.

The only thing that makes me upset in this whole process is that nobody said it won't be easy... Or maybe during pregnacy we are so blind to see the true.

All I want now is supporting other young mumies because we all need help to understand the new role we achieve. Without this help we fell upset, unhappy, helpless and lonely at the beginning of our early materninty.

All mums - if you have daughters, please, try to prepare them for a big change after giving birth. Try to support them. Even a small talk every day. If you have possibility, try to visit and help your daughter in nursing her baby.

She needs you! And she will be thankful like never before.

And I am. I am really thankful to my mum. She was with me mentally all pregnacy. She was when I gave my child birth.
And she is right now. Even she live some distance from me.